My cousin's son
was diagnosed with leukemia at the age of 3. He is halfway through his 3 year treatment
plan. The family was devastated to learn of this and it is taking its toll on
all of them. Corey experienced the side effects of chemotherapy, including his
hair falling out and being very weak. During treatment, he has to be excluded
from school and people in general because of his weakened immune system. His
hair has grown back, but now he is experiencing bladder problems. He feels the
urge to urinate constantly, but can't go. It is like the symptoms of a bladder
infection only without the infection. This stressor does not seem to be
affecting his biosocial development or his cognitive development as of this
time. This is probably due to the tremendous involvement of both of his
parents. He is very bright and enjoys playing with cars, puzzles, and loves
science. His psychosocial development; however, is what is impacted the most.
He has been isolated from large groups of people and cannot participate in
family events when he is enduring rounds of chemo. Through all this little boy
has been through (and has yet to go through), he remains positive. He enjoys
going to the park with his parents, bike rides, and the science center. I
believe we may not know the effects on his biosocial or cognitive behavior
until later in his life. We can only
hope and pray that he is able to avoid any long term developmental
deficiencies.
In contrast,
children in Sri Lanka are dealing with the stressors of war and disaster.
Children are affected by armed conflict in many ways. Some are being kidnapped to become soldiers,
some are tortured, some are crippled from mine explosions, and some are
orphaned (Fernando, Gaithri A.; Miller, Kenneth E.;
Berger, Dale E., 2010). These children
had a little reprieve in 2002 when a cease fire was agreed upon, but then a tsunami
hit Southeast Asia in 2004, devastating them again. Many are still in refugee camps from this
disaster. To make matters worse, in 2005
the armed conflict resumed. Studies from
the effects of these stressors have shown that girls tend to internalize their
stress through anxiety or depression. Boys tend to externalize their stress through
aggressive behavior. Social conditions
from these stressors may also relate to the high instance of child abuse. The psychosocial well-being of these children
can be improved by the development of child abuse prevention programs. Greater attention also needs to be paid to
meeting the basic needs of these children such as access to water, safe
housing, and schooling.
Reference
Fernando, Gaithri A.; Miller,
Kenneth E.; Berger, Dale E. Child Development. Jul/Aug2010, Vol. 81
Issue 4, p1192-1210.
Lynn-
ReplyDeleteFrom the sounds of it your cousin’s son is a little trooper. With amount of stress in his life it is great to hear that although there will be continued complications, that the little guy is staying as strong as he can. It is reassuring to know how supportive his parents are which is I am sure why there hasn’t been great deficiencies in his cognitive or biosocial development. With the continued support I am sure he will be a fighter. To think about what this little guy has to go through really puts into perspective how important it is for family involvement and the support of friends in the upbringing of a child.
The stressors from the cultural circumstances facing the children in Sri Lanka are horrific. The children are going to grow up not having adequate needs to ensure their development. It sounds like in the future there will hopefully be more resources provided to the children in Sri Lanka but there is no doubt that many of them will still suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder causing them to be “fearful, startled by noise, defensive, quick to attack, and confused between fantasy and reality (Berger, 2009).” The children are going through terrifying experiences that one could only hope that a resolution will be found soon so children can grow up with not only their basic needs being met but also be provided with experiences and opportunities to reach their full developmental potential.
Reference
Berger, K. (2009). The Developing Person. New York, New York: Worth Publishers.
I feel for your cousin's son. It has to be terrible to be a sick child. Being excluded and having to play catch up with academics, is one part being excluded socially is another. I have a great nephew that was diagnosed cystic fibrosis at 6 months old, he is now 14. He has good days and bad days. At this time in life he is not doing well. He hasn't been able to attend school. He was so excited to be able to participate in schools sports. He got an infection; he was hospitalized for 2 weeks and then came home with IV antibiotics. It is a stressor on his family as well. Even with support from extended family, the financial and emotion stress on a family has to be felt by the child.
ReplyDeleteThe social ramifications of physical illness are great. That is why it is so wonderful that camps for special needs children exist. A great list I found: http://www.kidscamps.com/specialneeds-camps.camp
ReplyDeleteThese camps allow children the socialization that is so important to development!